If you're reading this on October 9th, 10th, or 11th, pay close attention. The New Moon we have in Libra on the 10th could change your relationship with your past forever. But it's going to be messy, and it's going to be extremely confrontational.
I know, I know. That doesn't sound like Libra's harmonious energy or the fresh start we usually expect from a new moon. That's because this is not your typical new moon. This one screams drama, especially for the cardinal signs: Libra, Aries, Cancer, and Capricorn. You guys are probably already in the trenches.
Why this new moon feels so heavy
Before you light your candle and take out your journal to write down those intentions, there are some things you need to know. The ruler of this new moon, Venus, is retrograde in Scorpio, the sign of her detriment. In her retrograde, we're focused on the past. And in Scorpio, we're dealing with the deeply buried, painful emotions of the past. Fun stuff, right?
Venus will also be forming a very tense square with Mars, the planet of aggression, that day. So there will be conflict and there will be anger. Not to mention this new moon is also widely opposing Saturn, the planet of restriction. So there could also be a very heavy reality check coming your way.
What actually needs to happen
This new beginning ultimately comes from sorting out the complications of the past, especially in love and relationships.
Old wounds can get triggered. An argument from the past can resurface. Or maybe you realize that you are accepting less than you deserve. And whatever comes up, don't ignore it. Take a moment to understand what you're feeling and why. Have the difficult conversation if it needs to happen. Set the boundary you've been avoiding and pay attention to where you're still holding on to pain.
Do your best to forgive yourself and anyone involved because it's time to lighten the load on your heart. Sometimes finding peace requires you to face the mess first.
The good news hiding in the tension
Believe it or not, the confrontational energy of this new moon does want you to find that peace. Because this new moon is also receiving positive support from Jupiter. So there's tremendous potential for healing, growth, and finding a better way forward. Whatever feels uncomfortable now could ultimately set you free. So please don't avoid it.
Ask yourself: what are you still holding on to from the past that's keeping you from finding peace in the present? Because it's time to let that go. Happy new moon.